The Leadership Quality of Charisma (part 1 of 2)

How can you have charisma? Be more concerned about making others feel good about themselves than you are making them feel good about you. Most people think of charisma as something mystical, almost undefinable. They think it’s a quality that comes at birth or not at all. But that’s not true. Charisma, plainly stated, is the ability to draw people to you. And like many other character traits, it can be developed. To make yourself the kind of person who attracts others, you need to personify the following: 1. People Enjoy Leaders who Enjoy Life: Think of the people you want to spend time with. How would you describe them? Grumpy? Bitter? Depressed? Of course not. They’re celebrators, not complainers. They’re passionate about life. If you want to attract people, you need to be like the people you enjoy being with. 2. Put a “10” on Every Person’s head: One of the best things you can do for people – which also attracts them to you – is to expect the best of them. It’s like putting a “10” on everybody’s head. It helps others think more highly of themselves, and at the same time, it also helps you. According to Jacques Wiesel, “A survey of 100 self-made millionaires showed only one common denominator. These highly successful men and women could only see the good in other people.” The greatest good you can do for another is not just to share your riches, but to reveal him to his own. If you appreciate others, encourage them, and help them reach their potential – they will love you for it 3. Give People Hope: French General Napoleon Bonaparte characterized leaders as “dealers in hope”. Like all great leaders, he knew that hope is the greatest of all possessions. If you can be the person who bestows that gift on others, they will be attracted to you, and they will be forever grateful. 4. Share Yourself: People love leaders who share themselves and their life journeys. As you lead people, give of yourself. Share wisdom, resources, and even special occasions. When it comes to charisma, the bottom line is other-mindedness. Leaders who think about others and their concerns before thinking of themselves exhibit charisma. To be continued... Truth@Life can help you, regardless of your location. Call 248-396-6255 or email me at curtis.songer@gmail.com for a free consultation. If you receive value from these blogs, please consider donating to keep this blog site up and running. This ministry cannot continue without the generous donations of its readers. Just click on the "Donate" button in the upper right. For more info on help I can provide check out http://truthatlife.com/ or email me directly at curtis.songer@gmail.com